Is My Toddler Happy?
Many parents worry if their children are happy with them. I worry too. I ask myself every day this question because sometimes I think that I’m not very good mother. I think every parent know what I mean.
But the answer is that we don’t have to be an expert in child psychology to make our child happy. You don’t need to invent or buy any special things. It’s even impossible.
I’ve read many articles about making a child happy and, comparing them with my own experience, I can tell that the most important is to be happy yourself. If you are not happy Nothing, nothing will be able to make your toddler happy.
Parents – people number 1 for all children. Children of all age always feel when parents are stressed and angry or irritated. We are role model for our children. If we happy and smile they happy and smile too.
It doesn’t mean that we have to create Special Perfect Reality and hide all negative things from our children. One day they will know the truth.
But the most important is to show them that if even we meet something sad in our life we should show how to deal with sadness and lot’s of other unpleasant thing.
The other important igredient is patience. This is really what I have lack. I know I’m not the worst but still have to improve myself.
Any parent can lay the groundwork for a lifetime of happiness. I’m trying to do it every day.
If you are not sleeping yet, thanks for attention.
You are very good mather!
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