Many parents worry if their children are happy with them. I worry too. I ask myself every day this question because sometimes I think that I’m not very good mother. I think every parent know what I mean.
But the answer is that we don’t have to be an expert in child psychology to make our child happy. You don’t need to invent or buy any special things. It’s even impossible.
I’ve read many articles about making a child happy and, comparing them with my own experience, I can tell that the most important is to be happy yourself. If you are not happy Nothing, nothing will be able to make your toddler happy.
Parents – people number 1 for all children. Children of all age always feel when parents are stressed and angry or irritated. We are role model for our children. If we happy and smile they happy and smile too.
It doesn’t mean that we have to create Special Perfect Reality and hide all negative things from our children. One day they will know the truth.
But the most important is to show them that if even we meet something sad in our life we should show how to deal with sadness and lot’s of other unpleasant thing.
The other important igredient is patience. This is really what I have lack. I know I’m not the worst but still have to improve myself.
Any parent can lay the groundwork for a lifetime of happiness. I’m trying to do it every day.
If you are not sleeping yet, thanks for attention.
All toddlers are very curious and they love to touch all buttons they find in house. It’s almost impossible to stop this but Read more »
- Be yourself. Always. Be personality. Even if sometimes I want you to follow my advices. Read more »
Mixture of generations: wisdom + unstoppable curiosity and energy…
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All of us try our best to be the best parents. We adore our kids and can’t even imagine how we could live without them. But there is no happiness without drop of sadness. During times when we are very tired (sleepless nights, too many things to do about house and taking care for baby) or under some stress we act like we didn’t use to do. And when you calm down you wish you could take everything back. Then you feel regrets and began to doubt if you are Read more »
How does the toddler understand how the things should be?
Listening to your lectures and seen that you are doing completely different? Or learning it from you remembering all your habbits and words even when you think she isn’t interested?
All of us know the answer… Only Read more »
If I forgot to write about something, please add your suggestions in comments.
1. Keep your toddlers in the push-chair during the walk after he started to walk because it would be too hard for you to run after him in different directions. It may cause you to Read more »
I’ve seen in some mommy Blogs posts about wrinkles. This topic is popular because most of the women are afraid of them. I was too. But not anymore!
I’m not afraid of them. The point is start to see beauty even in wrinkles. I believe that beauty is not only in young skin. It must be somewhere deep inside. That’s the secret why so many women are so beautiful even in their late forty, fifty and even sixty. But some looks terribly funny trying to show up everyone that they are still young and beautiful dressing up slothes which don’t match them and thier age, wearing bright make up… It’s only body and skin. Our soules and hearts never become old! Read more »
Now I realize that my dearest little baby is not so small as it was. My baby has become a toddler. It’s high time to learn a lot of new things about toddlers and their development. It will be wonderful to remember how you felt yourself when you were very small and recollect first memories and impressions.
It appears that being involved in routine everyday problems you forgot a lot of things which were very important for you when you were child. As for me now I began to remember things which made me feel sad when I was toddler. It’s very important not for training memory but for the sake of avoiding to do the same mistakes with your child. I’m sure that the most important thing for all parents to make life of your toddler easier and better that they had. The other point is that it’s not always possible. Also remembering positive things are necessary for better understanding what is interesting. Read more »
